Thursday, November 28, 2013

The Practice of Pausing

Day 71 of 1000

" If you want to learn you practice"
          Seven Sacred Pauses
                  Macrina Wiederkehr

  In high school and a bit in college I ran track and cross country.  Most everyday, I would practice.  I would practice gaining endurance and strength.  I would practice breathing deeply and gaining power.  Each practice added to my training.  Without practicing I would have never improved my running skills.  Some days, I practiced poorly.  In high school I remember a few days we took a short cut and ending up in the local Dairy Queen for ice cream.  Other days, my practice was almost spiritual in its power to transform.  Having quality days of practice was good but it was the daily practicing that made the most difference.  Showing up for practice was the key. My body, mind and spirit would often dictate the "quality of practice".   Maybe ice cream was indeed the perfect practice for the day.

  I don't always know what I really need.  My days start to blend together, my to-do lists take priority in my brain and sometimes I just forget what is truly important in life. This is why I practice.  I practice pausing and coming back to center.  I practice writing as a gift to myself.  I practice smiling to see the gift of each day.  I practice running to be honest.

These practices keep me humble and awake.  The curiosity of what will happen after 1000 days of practice keeps me motivated.

Macrina reminds me, "I believe that the word practice is one of the most important words in the spiritual life... If you want to be a dancer, a pianist, a singer, a figure skater, you practice...Why should the spiritual life be any different? We practice pausing to remember the sacredness of our names, who we are, and what we plan on doing with the incredible gift of our lives - and how we can learn to be in the midst of so much doing." pg 13 Seven Sacred Pauses

 

Washing dishes and smiling- a deep- deep practice for sure!!!!


Wishing you a day of practice that tastes like ice cream,
      Denise
 

Sunday, November 17, 2013

The art of Kaizen

Day #60

Today, I have taken care of myself.  We had a wonderful family gathering of 19 yesterday- an early Thanksgiving celebration.  Which by the way I highly recommend.  Not only did we have today to get our home back in order, rest and eat left overs.  We also opened up a new tradition of having an un-traditional Thanksgiving two weekends before Thanksgiving.  It feels wonderful to have gotten to enjoy a vibrant family gathering.  But  I now feel so blessed to still have a not- traditional Thanksgiving day awaiting us.  A new tradition of having a day set aside for pausing and being thankful, not rushing, cooking and cleaning like a whirlwind.

And so tonight, as I puttered around my creative room and saw a familiar quote I have had on my wall for years.  I realized, it is really the definition of my 1000 day journey.

Kaizen
An interesting Japanese concept
The art of making the smallest subtlest changes possible

Is is not about feeding our appetite for the grand gesture.
It is about producing real and lasting change:
However Small

May your days be simple but rich in Kaizen,  
                 Denise

Monday, November 4, 2013

Different Kinds of Smiles


This morning I woke up and smiled.  I thought to myself, there are thousands of different smiles.  My smile this morning was a sleepy contented smile.  This little happy smile is completely different than my new discovery smile or my unexpected surprise smile.  It seems kind of silly but the idea that I have zillions of different smiles made me happy and somehow relieved.

The key to an effective smile is two fold:  engage eyes and if at all possible emotions.  The second is not necessary but always a huge bonus.  Some days, my energy is not as strong as other days.  Depending on where I find myself a goofy, silly smile may not be appropriate.  But I'm guessing if I pause and breathe long enough I might find enough reason to smile a little smile of gratitude or even a smile of relief.  The fact is each day will give me reason to smile- to say thank you.

If I can remember to pause long enough there will be a reason.   And if the reason isn't obvious at first, then I may I remember to practice my smile and by the end of my smile pause- just maybe I will have my reason.

I wish you great joy on your journey,
       Denise

Day # 47